You have no idea because the idiots who run the Gay Agenda didn’t have the intelligence or foresight to declare/announce that gays and lesbians should wear their wedding ring on their right hand fourth finger, or right hand third finger or left hand third finger. Any finger other than the traditional heterosexual left hand fourth finger tradition. The inept Gay Agenda should have chosen a specific finger other than the traditional heterosexual wedding ring finger of left hand fourth finger. Because when people see a guy with a left hand fourth finger, they think: Straight and married to a woman. Since gay marriage became legal, seeing a left hand fourth finger wedding band or wedding ring, one has no idea if the guy is married to a guy or girl.

I have a business acquaintance like that. I have no idea if he’s gay or straight and it really doesn’t matter to me, but I see his left hand fourth finger wedding ring and wonder: Is he married to a guy or girl? I could ask him but I’ve chosen not to. Because nearly all gay and lesbian married couples are wearing their wedding rings/bands on the same finger as married heterosexuals: left hand fourth finger. I’d have to ask my business acquaintance about it and — knowing him — he would be cool with that but, again, I’ve chosen not to get into that and the whole wedding ring mess. It would probably make him realise that his left hand wedding ring is confusing to people and is on the wrong finger.

It was the Gay Agenda’s stupidity that came up with, “Our (queer) relationships are no different than heterosexual relationships so we should wear our wedding bands and wedding rings on the same finger as heterosexuals.” What fucking idiots. There are a couple of problems with that stupidity: Considering heterosexuals’ dysfunctional relationships and divorce rate, I would hope that your gay relationships are far superior to heterosexual relationships/marriages. Second problem: Do these same-gender couples really want to be confused with or mistaken for heterosexuals? That can easily happen. That’s like being in the closet. So much for that “out and proud” nonsense of corporate “Pride.” (Related: Change “Pride” back to the original name which was Gay Freedom Day and Festival). But if queers wore their wedding rings on a different finger than heterosexuals, I would know immediately that the guy is gay. I wouldn’t have to try to guess. There would be no mistaking that. And I suspect most gay and lesbian couples have never considered any of this.

When one sees two gay guys together — not knowing them or knowing that they are gay — both wearing their left hand wedding rings, how many people see them and their wedding band and think: Where are their wives? Off shopping? The same for two lesbians sitting together with their left hand wedding rings. People see them and think: Where are their husbands, still at work? Because how many people even remember gay marriage these days? Even some gay guys don’t remember gay marriage. On a gay porn video I was watching, gay commenters were automatically making the assumption that a guy was straight because in the porn video the guy was wearing a left hand wedding ring. He could have been gay and married to a guy, but these gay commenters didn’t even consider that. Well, when gay guys don’t even consider that and don’t remember gay marriage, how does one expect anyone else to remember it? And this problem, again, is because of the stupidity and ineptness of the Gay Agenda and the corporate trash who run that and have made such a grand mess out of things ever since. Some of us can’t stand them.