What brought this up was that my friend was watching a photography video today and the guy had a left hand fourth finger wedding ring on. My friend thought the guy was straight until he said “my husband.” If he had not mentioned his husband — which is a very heteronormative word for his partner — my friend would have continued to perceive the guy as straight. And that’s the problem with gays and lesbians wearing their wedding rings on the left hand fourth finger, which traditionally is the wedding ring finger, particularly in the US.

Ever since gay marriage became legal, most same-gender couples particularly in the US have been wearing their wedding ring on the same finger that heterosexuals per tradition wear their wedding ring:  left hand fourth finger. 

These same-gender couples apparently want to be mistaken for being straight or has that never dawned on them?  Gay guys are asked:  Where are your wives?  Off shopping?  Lesbians are asked:  Where are your husbands?  At work? Many, if not most, people — including some gay guys — have completely forgotten that same-gender couples can get married.

Also, by leading people to think that gays and lesbians are straight, that cancels out that “gay pride” nonsense that many gays and lesbians go on about every June/Summer.  It’s nonsense because why would anyone be proud of or have “pride” in their sexuality, regardless of what their sexuality is? “I’m proud to be straight” or “I’m proud to be bi” is not something I’ve ever heard anyone say. And why would they? So why would anyone be “proud” to be gay or queer? And what idiots dreamed up “Pride?” With the left hand wedding ring thing, those couples who are (more) in the closet are quite comfortable with the public thinking they’re straight. 

Like with everything else they’ve ruined and wrecked, the Gay Agenda didn’t have the intelligence to come up with a solution to this such as:  gay couples:  wear your wedding rings — if you must have one in the first place since it’s a very heteronormative act — on your middle finger (for example).  That way you won’t be confused for being married to the opposite gender. Get it? Because the left hand wedding ring and the heteronormative tradition and institution of marriage is very cemented in most people’s mind as it has been for generations.

The Gay Agenda decreed: Our relationships are no different than that of heterosexuals, hence the left hand fourth finger routine.

Someone should have told them: Well I would hope and think that your relationships are far superior to the many dysfunctional heterosexual relationships with their high divorce rate. But I know that these gays and lesbians wanted to be “carbon copies” of the straights so they got in lockstep with the conservative heteronormative marriage, adopting kids in some cases “to have a family,” being all “rah, rah” for US military actions and barbarism, going to sports bars, buying corporate sports team gear and going to “the game” to be like Mr Heterosexual Jock.

Some queers were asking: What has happened to my fellow queers? They flipped out after gay marriage became legal. That’s what happened to them.

Too bad the corporate trash who run the Gay Agenda didn’t have the intelligence to come up with something other than marriage which is also a very heteronormative and conservative institution.

But based on how things have changed and — as my lesbian neighbour says — been ruined since gay marriage became legal, obviously the corporate trash who run the Gay Agenda are not the brightest people.