It’s quite a double standard. I’m well aware that there is and has long been a double standard sexually between guys and girls, in particular bisexual girls and bisexual guys.  And we seem to be going backwards.

For some reason it’s perfectly acceptable for two girls to do things in public — such as hold hands or kiss, and maybe other things — that are not seen acceptable for two guys to do.  When girls do it, our societal thinking is: “That’s what girls do.”  But when guys do the same, they are treated differently and in some cases hated on.

Well, you might think that things would be different in a live cam sex room on the site I call Complimentsbate — since that’s what the chat is usually full of = ridiculous compliments — but it’s no different there either.  The majority of the sex taking place in one particular room I visit is straight sex and female bisexuality.  Although this particular room mistakenly refers to the female bisexuality as “lesbian” which of course is the wrong word, because lesbians have no sexual interest or attraction to guys.  Only bisexual girls do.  Many other rooms make the same mistake.  In the live cam rooms, the bisexual girls make out with each other and with the guys.  But when viewers ask for the same sexual behaviour between the guys, things get really weird and even hostile.  I was in one room last week and the topic of the guys sucking each other’s dick came up. The guy who runs the channel said, “No” when a viewer asked, “Can the guys play with each other?” Then this week a similar question was asked in the same room and the guy who runs the channel said, “Only in private.” I thought:  That’s a change from what he said last week, and why is it okay in private?  So then, “Can the guys play with each other?” came up yet again just before I wrote this article.  I later made a comment in their chat:  I wrote:  You’d make more money if the guys were bisexual in public just like the girls are bisexual in public. Why the different standard for the guys? There’s nothing wrong with bisexual guys. There are thousands of them around the world.

Well, I didn’t see anything wrong in saying that, but clearly the guy who runs the channel is very thin-skinned and his buttons are easily pushed over the mere mention of bisexual guys (having sex in public), so he immediately deleted my comment and then silenced me.  I thought that was a bit much.  So I promptly left the room.

Apparently bisexual guys having sex in public with other guys really pushes his buttons or he thinks there’s something wrong with that. I’m not sure he’s in the right job with that prudish mindset. And he’s not the only channel with that attitude. Other “rooms” say the same thing.  They hide male bisexuality.

Again, it’s perfectly acceptable for girls to make out with each other after just being fucked by one of the guys and for the girls to play with and lick each other’s pussy.  But it is not acceptable for one of the guys to suck the other guy’s dick after he’s just fucked pussy. That is clearly forbidden in the minds of these fucked up guys who run these channels on Complimentsbate.  Male bisexuality must somehow threaten their masculinity.  It’s a shame really.

Updated 28 February 2025:  Well, there seems to be many rooms like this run by Latinos.  I was in another room earlier with a girl and two guys.  They specified that bisexual — meaning the two guys — would be in private.  Shortly after that, they went to private.  I clicked off at that point.  Someone in the chat who was apparently seeing the “private show,” said that “the guy with the floppy dick wanted to be fucked by a real man.”  An unfortunate size-queen comment and it was essentially dick shaming the guy fucking the guy with the bigger dick in private.  No guy chose his dick size, people.  To the commenter, a “real man” is apparently determined by the large size of his dick.  (roll eyes).  As I said, I clicked off when they went to private.  From now on, I will likely avoid Latino rooms of this type where they hide in private the guys being bisexual.  And one has to pay for private and I don’t pay anything to watch the live cam shows, when one can watch porn for free anywhere else.  What idiot would pay to watch these live sex cammers have sex?  They’re no different than free porn.  The thing is:  Who are they hiding their bisexuality from?  They state to begin with — where everyone can read it — that bisexual is in private, so everyone in their room can read that and know that the guys are bi (in private).  It really makes no sense whatsoever.