Reality: There are many manly, masculine, attractive, hot, handsome gay/queer guys out there. So why are many gay guys hiding behind “Interested in Women” in their profile hanging out in straight live cam sex rooms and hitting on and trying to recruit straight guys into having “gay sex” when the straight guy has made it quite clear that he is straight? A friend of mine and I don’t understand that and never have. Is this what some people mean when they have said, “Gay guys are so annoying?”
I’ve had to rewrite this article after doing a bit of research on this topic.
There are two groups of gay guys online who hang out in str8 online live cam sex rooms:
The first group hits on white, straight, homophobic, proudly fascist maga alpha guys, and these gay guys give the homophobic maga alpha guys money. Because they are straight, white, homophobic, maga alpha guys, these gay guys see these guys as superior to them and want to be treated as such by the maga dude. Black guys are also in this group and use the screen name “nigger…” and the maga bro tells them to, “give me that coon money.” He tells the gay guys to “give me that fag money.”
Then, the second group of gay guys — for some reason — want to see straight guys “turn gay.” So they try to recruit all straight guys to have sex with another guy. They ask the straight guy a series of questions including, “Have you ever had sex with a guy?” The straight guy could ask (but doesn’t) the gay guy, “Have you ever had sex with a girl?”
On the live cam sex shows, the gay guys who do the recruiting of straight guys usually have in their profile that they’re “Interested in Women.” Of course they’re lying — unless they’re bi — which most of them are not. These guys are only into guys sexually with “Interested in Women” in their profile.
In the chat, I’ve challenged a few guys on their lies and they told me, “I never chose that ‘interested in women’ thing in my profile. Liar. And after I called the guy on it, he still made no attempt to correct that in his profile which told me that he didn’t care that he was coming off as straight whilst hitting on every straight guy he can find. It only takes about a second to change that part of the profile, but none of the guys I challenged on this ever changed their profile. So it told me they were deliberately lying about “I never chose that…”
As I said, then he proceeds to hit on every straight guy he can find. And he begins to try to recruit the straight guy into “gay sex.” The straight guy has made it obvious that he’s straight but that’s what these gay guys are looking for.
I fail to understand why gay guys hit on straight guys rather than hitting on other masculine gay guys. Wouldn’t it make more sense to be in a gay guy’s room rather than in a straight guy’s room? What is the appeal of a straight guy? So these gay guys proceed to tell the str8 cam guy what they want to do with him sexually and his “monster cock” (even when he’s average).
Then comes the recruiting with their scripted questions, where they all ask the same questions:
1. Have you ever been with a guy? You should try it.
The straight guy doesn’t respond with: Have you ever been with a girl? You should try it.
2. Have you ever wanked off with a guy? Have you ever done [fill in the blank] with a guy?
3. Do you think about having sex with a guy?
What does it matter if he has? The gay guy is in New Zealand, for example, and the straight guy is in Canada. Does the gay guy plan to fly all the way to Canada just to have sex with someone? That’s the mark of desperation.
4. Have you ever touched another guy’s dick?
And what if he has? What does that prove or signify? Touching another guy’s dick doesn’t mean anything; some boys do that in high school when they’re rough-housing with each other.
That’s four of the endless and predictable questions asked in the chat.
On a couple occasions, I challenged these gay guys in the chat by saying: Your profile says only “Interested in Women” yet you’re hitting on this straight guy. Why? Well, the straight guy reprimanded me — and not the gay guy — because it turned out that the str8 guy was cool with being hit on thinking that he might get some gay tokens/$$ from the gay guy. So, I left the room realising I was wasting my time since the straight guy didn’t care if he was being hit on as long as token$ were involved. But other straight guys do care, and they refuse to respond to the gay guys hitting on them in the chat, and some of them specifically say in their profile or their room title, “NOT GAY.”
The thing is, there would be a major uproar if this were straight guys hitting on gay guys and trying to recruit gay guys. But when it’s gay guys running after, hitting on and trying to recruit straight guys, nothing is said about it. It’s quite the hypocrisy.
Of course these gay guys wouldn’t go into a straight bar and try to recruit one or more of the str8 guys in there — or maybe they would! — because he might end up regretting doing that depending upon the outcome if the straight guy gets pissed off, but since it’s online and the gay guy is anonymous, it seems that makes a difference in running after straight guys.
There was one room on the live cam sex site where a straight guy brought in his straight best friend to exploit his gay audience. The str8 guy knew that most of his audience were queer guys. What to do about that? Well, the two straight bros never did anything sexual, they just pretended to. This went on for weeks with gay guys thinking that if they gave theses two str8 guys enough money that they would eventually “turn gay” and do something sexual. Nada. That never happened. I was watching one of these guys because he would fuck his girlfriend on occasion, but I found their exploiting and baiting the gay guys a pretty low thing to do. It turned me off from watching the str8 guy and his friend.
As I said, of course the straight guy could turn the tables and ask the gay guy if he’s ever been with a girl and fucked pussy, but I never see that in the chat. Maybe most straight guys know better and they know not to do that.
There was a time when gay guys knew not to hit on straight guys — they might get their head bashed in — but, again, being anonymous and being online seems to have changed that.
The message these gay guys send is: You should try guys if you haven’t, and be with a guy instead of a girl. And these gay guys seem absolutely convinced that if a straight guy were to try being with a guy and have sex with a guy that he would immediately “turn gay.”
Yet it has been gay guys for decades which have said that gay guys can’t and don’t “turn str8.” So why would it be any differently for straight guys? How can a str8 guy “turn gay?” The hypocrisy is noted.
The obvious question is: Why aren’t these gay guys in a gay guy’s cam room? A gay guy would be far more likely to be into them than the genuine straight guy who has no sexual interest in guys. This also gives gay guys a bad rap. I’ve heard it said: “Gay guys are so fucking annoying; they’re always hitting on straight guys.” Yes, some are, a noticeable number especially on the live cam sex site.
I usually avoid even having the chat on because I find it so boring and annoying with everybody saying the same thing and what seems like copy and pasting others comments. Everything about a “model” is described as “perfect, awesome, amazing” and the like. Even when it’s not, but rather ordinary and mundane.
I have observed that nearly all of the gay guys on these live cam sites pretend to be straight by having “Interested in Women” and only that in their profile. I’ve challenged some gay guys with their “Interested in Women” bull shit and their hypocrisy of hitting on a str8 guy. Some claim they’re bisexual to which I ask: Then why don’t you say that in your profile?
I’ve also learned that most of the profiles are filled with lies. Some people’s location changes frequently even though their home and where they’re on camera never changes. I check in with this one straight room that’s in Panamá but they changed their profile to say they’re in España. No, they’re lying. They’re still in Panamá. Why lie?
One guy in the Poland kept saying he’s in the USA, then he changed it to New Jersey, then changed it back to US, then his profile said, “Ask me for 100 tokens.” Then he changed it to “here and now.”
The Live Cam Sex Site is really a Baby Sitting Service
That’s essentially what many of these cam people do with their viewers in the chat. They baby sit them. These lonely viewers in the chat want the attention of the cam person and think they can become friends with them. I usually hide the chat because most of the people in the chat sees these cammers as celebrities just because they’re on camera. Yet anybody with a little money can buy a cheap camera and wank off in front of it. Yet these viewers see these “models” as gods so they worship and adore them and give them endless compliments. That’s intended to cause the cammer to want to become friends with these anonymous viewers. With the people in the chat, everyone tries to be funny and ends every comment with “lol” or “lmao.” The maturity level is rock bottom. Nearly everything is described using the pop culture overused words “awesome” and “amazing” when most of what takes places is just the opposite of that: It’s ordinary and mundane. People write, “best cock on CB” when they’ve not seen all dicks to make that ridiculous compliment. But that doesn’t matter. They’re trying to eat the ass of the cammer so the cammer will “perform” for free and give the chat person attention.
Bottom Line: There are a lot of lonely people in the chats of these sites and they want attention. They often want personalised attention so they ask the cam guy for Private. The problem with that is that the cam guy (baby sitter) ends up dumping all the other viewers in order to cater to some needy person who wants the cam guy’s undivided attention. If I were a cam guy, I would not do Private.
As for me, I take what I want from the site and leave the rest, which is mostly the majority of the site. Rather than just having sex, many of the cammers whilst having sex are really staring at the screen and reading what the idiots in the chat are saying. So she’s glued to the screen and reading when having her pussy licked looking as if she’s more into the screen than into what he’s doing to her (licking her pussy). The people in the chat are telling them: do this, do that, do this, do that, no that’s not the right way to do that, and other rubbish. If I were on there as a sex cammer, I would ignore the chat because it gets fucking annoying.
Personally, the gay/queer guys I find annoying are the dudes who wear their sexuality outwardly all over their person where they are decked out in rainbow this and rainbow that. They look gaudy-tacky wearing their sexuality “on their sleeve.” But very few queer guys do that from my experience, but even one is enough to turn me off. I think: Who cares that you’re gay?
On another topic:
The Lovense company’s monopoly on the site
Most of the cammers fall for the Lovense sex toy company’s monopoly on the site, so they buy all of this stuff from Lovense thinking they’ll make lots of money from it (by viewers paying tokens to activate the toy), when in the end, that doesn’t happen for most people. Some guys spend time “prepping” their ass to use their toys only to get no business. Some cammers live under delusions that they can make enough money from this site to buy a new home or a new car and “live their dream.” Most cammers probably don’t make enough to buy a Danish pastry. It’s really hit and miss. Some cammers will make a lot of tokens one day and none the next.
Some people buy the expensive fuck machine and in the end rarely or never use it. Or they’ll buy the company’s butt plugs — all sizes — and in the end don’t use them that much or at all. One guy I follow bought the Hush and used it twice and that was it. Most of the guy’s buy some version of the Lush — which Lovense says is for pussy — and put that in their ass. At this point, only Lush 3 and 4 are available from Lovense. The Lovense company is selling the original Lush 1 on Ebay as of this writing and charging $400 for it because it’s the last one available, when it originally sold for about $100. Greed. Bottom line: All this money that the cammers spend thinking they will make lots of money from it doesn’t happen. Many people quit eventually.